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Beauty For Ashes - new song from DJ

This is what God has called me to do:

Isa 61:1       The Spirit of the Lord GOD is upon me, Because the LORD has anointed me To bring good news to the afflicted; He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to captives And freedom to prisoners;
Isa 61:2       To proclaim the favorable year of the LORD And the day of vengeance of our God; To comfort all who mourn,
Isa 61:3       To grant those who mourn {in} Zion, Giving them a garland instead of ashes, The oil of gladness instead of mourning, The mantle of praise instead of a spirit of fainting. So they will be called oaks of righteousness, The planting of the LORD, that He may be glorified.
Isaiah 61:1-3 NASB

Be blessed...
DJ







This Is What I Believe - new song video!

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Ideas for Father's Day Gifts

A few years ago, I received a song for my son, Israel David, as I welcomed him into manhood. That song is called 'The Measure of a Man'. We have matted lyrics, ready for framing (signed by me!) that would make a wonderful gift for dad. May I also suggest the CD that contains the song? It is called 'Songs of Freedom for Men'.

Also, my new book, 'What Every Boy Should Know...What Every Man Wishes His Dad Had Told Him' will be available by week's end and can be shipped out the day after Father's Day (sorry we could not get it here sooner!). If you buy the book we will include a FREE copy of the CD 'Songs of Freedom For Men' as a 'thank you' for purchasing the book. I really do want to encourage men to walk in their true, God-ordained masculine identity - whether they are a dad or not! These 'products' are my way of doing that.

Go to the store area to find the matted lyrics, CD, and new book!
Blessings,
DJ

We are busy around here! Senior graduating high school, moving daughter and son-in-law from St. Louis, building new offices, garage sale, taking daughter to Texas for a month long ministry trip to Australia, boys in band camp, preparation for ministry trips, finishing up a new book...you get the idea! Once we get things settled down here I will do better at updating the web site and the DJinsiders materials.

SSA

CONFESSION
I have been struggling with homosexuality for 3 years and it is ruining my life. I need help but I am afraid to tell anyone.

GOD’S WORD SAYS
For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual {forces} of wickedness in the heavenly {places.} Therefore, take up the full armor of God, so that you will be able to resist in the evil day, and having done everything, to stand firm. Stand firm therefore, HAVING GIRDED YOUR LOINS WITH TRUTH, and HAVING PUT ON THE BREASTPLATE OF RIGHTEOUSNESS, and having shod YOUR FEET WITH THE PREPARATION OF THE GOSPEL OF PEACE; in addition to all, taking up the shield of faith with which you will be able to extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil {one.} And take THE HELMET OF SALVATION, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. Ephesians 6:12-17 NASB

DENNIS’S SUGGESTION
This battle is not one to be fought alone. You must find others to help you fight this. I suggest you look into the many resources available at www.ecodus-international.org.

SSA

CONFESSION
I've just repented of my most recent homosexual activity with another man. To be honest, I'm scared of what's going to happen next. Every time I get back up I just keep falling down. Hopefully, when I get tested, my results will be negative. Then I'll have to go back in 3 months and get tested again because of last night. Many bridges have been burned and I can't go back to the way things were. My only hope is that God can turn it around for good. I've got so much potential but I can't seem to get my feet off the ground. Sometimes I just wish that Christ would return already but that's selfish. Many people still need to be saved. I just feel like I'm just doing such a lousy job here on earth but I don't mean to. Anyways, I guess the point of this piece of writing to say that I'm just plain scared!

GOD’S WORD SAYS
Do not rejoice over me, O my enemy. Though I fall I will rise; Though I dwell in darkness, the LORD is a light for me. Micah 7:8 NASB

DENNIS’S SUGGESTION
The important thing is that you keep getting back up and that you run to Jesus each and every time. It is there you will find rest and peace and grace to keep going. No temptation defines any man. No test result defines any man. We are who our Father says we are. Please seek help and encouragement at www.exodus-international.org.

Alcohol Addiction

CONFESSION
My problems are due to alcohol and I think I'm addicted.

GOD’S WORD SAYS
As the deer pants for the water brooks, So my soul pants for You, O God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God…Psalm 42:1-2 NASB

DENNIS’S SUGGESTION
Freedom comes as you realize your true needs are met only in an intimate relationship with the Lord. Learn to thirst after Him as if your life depends on it…because it does.

Abusive Marriage

CONFESSION
I was brought up in the most broken home anyone can imagine.  My mother (who I loved dearly) was never married and she had five of us.  My father lived with us for a while but was abusive.  I decided I did not want that kind of life so I got married and have two kids (boys).  But, like my mom I suffer abuse, not the kind that you see but the one that is psychological.

I am accused of unfaithfulness although I have never actually been.  I confess I have thought of it.  But there is a fight within me because I wanted to distance myself from my upbringing.

So I am suffering the same hurt that I have tried to distance myself from.  My marriage is a mess.  There is no communication - we sleep in separate rooms but keep up the charade.  I think of leaving but I don’t want to hurt my boys.

GOD’S WORD SAYS
…Jesus said to them, "Any kingdom divided against itself is laid waste; and any city or house divided against itself will not stand.” Matthew 12:25 NASB

DENNIS’S SUGGESTION
Please seek a wise Christian counselor and take steps to remove yourself from the abusive situation. Your boys are already being hurt simply by the lack of communication between you and your spouse. They are having to endure the same abuse you are going through...and are learning how to respond improperly to women. Protect your children. Protect yourself. Find a women’s shelter in your area if possible and do not be afraid to use their resources.

Sexual Healing

CONFESSION
I have a wonderful husband.  But, because of the rapes and molestation I went through growing up, I struggle with being OK with sex.  I go through the motions, and a lot of times pretend that I am enjoying it.  Most of the time, though, I am disgusted with it and want to throw up.  I just want to enjoy my husband.

GOD’S WORD SAYS
For the love of Christ controls us, having concluded this, that one died for all, therefore all died; and He died for all, so that they who live might no longer live for themselves, but for Him who died and rose again on their behalf. Therefore from now on we recognize no one according to the flesh; even though we have known Christ according to the flesh, yet now we know {Him} {in this way} no longer. Therefore if anyone is in Christ, {he is} a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come. 2 Corinthians 5:14-17 NASB

DENNIS’S SUGGESTION
Learn to see yourself as the Lord does. It is the enemy of God that wants to keep you trapped in the old ways of thinking about yourself. Christ sees you as spotless and pure. When you see yourself that way freedom will come more and more. That is what happened for me. I had to renew my mind to see what He sees and not what I see. Seek intimacy with Christ and this intimacy will permeate your marriage relationship as well.

SSA

CONFESSION
I had my first sexual encounter w/ a boy at 7 years old, and it went from there, and I have had several sexual encounters w/men. And for 30 years of my life, I was involved w/homosexuality. The last relationship I had I lived w/a man. PRAY for healing Spiritually, and Emotionally. I am a Christian now.

GOD’S WORD SAYS
"For nothing will be impossible with God." Luke 1:37 NASB

DENNIS’S SUGGESTION
Knowing Jesus intimately is worth everything we go through. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus and not on the temptation. Temptation does not define you. Your Father defines you. Be who He says you are. I would also encourage you to go to my web site, www.dennisjernigan.com, and search the 'Need Help?' section. You will find many resources there. You will also want to look at the many resources available at www.exodus-international.org, including a ministry focused on young people.